Are you an inside of the box or outside of the box thinker?

You are probably thinking what is she talking about, and where is she going with this post.
What is inside of the box vs outside of the box thinking? Inside of the box thinking is when you go on thinking like everyone else around you. When you sit around and complain about issues in your life and don't take any initiative to solve those problems on your own. You are also in the box if you sit around and help others complain about there issues in there lives as well. In the box thinkers, also hope their problems in life will go away on there own.
When you are an outside of the box thinker you associate with people who will help you solve the problem and you also know enough not to dwell on the issues you have in life. You take all the positive and grow, and you are not afraid of change. When you solve your own problems you know you are definitely out of the box. It takes awhile to get out of the box but once you are out of the box you are a better person because you don't self betrayal your self or betray others. I personally struggle every day to get out of the box, but in 2009, I will spend more time outside of the box, then inside of the box!!